You are still struggling with the concepts here. You have a reoccurring theme of fairness that runs throughout your posts. Cancer is not fair. A child dieing of a brain tumor is not fair. Mental illness is not fair. You have to let go of what you believe to be fair and accept that things are what they are. What you believe is fair others will view as not fair.
DBing is not restoring your marriage. Restoring your marriage may be a result of DBing. Dbing is a set of skills giving you the opportunity to really look at yourself and grow. It gives you the knowledge to understand what is going on and to move forward yourself. Its not a cure all. Only you can choose to learn and apply the skills to yourself and become a better person able to move on with your life.
Matt, you can choose to wallow in self pity. You can also choose to take this bowl of lemons and make lemonade. The decision is not in your wifes hands. The decision is in your hands and what you choose to do.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"
