Job I will read Darings post. I went back over bills last night and without my H 1/2 bills things will be tighter then I thought and there will be a couple of things son and I will have to live without. But like I said I plan to try this out Jan-March, which made me also realize I need to stop all R talks to H, so I guess I will not be filing for D anytime soon.
Could my H and I live together to just raise our son and for financial support ONLY. How would that look? I would have to be totally detached from any type of R with H, and H would have to be totally OK with me living my life on my own terms, neither one of us would be able to see the other as H & W. I mean we would need to be D but living together,,,which I guess is what H is trying to do now.....without the offical D?
The sex would have to stop, I think when H ans I have sex in his mind I'm ok with everythign else going on.
Serious boundaries would have to be set in place and honored on both ends. We would both have to be willing to live without an intimate relationship with OW or OM while living together to raise our son.
Hmmm,,,maybe this is something I will also sit on and think about while Im seeing how it really feels to support son and I on my own. But I dont really think my H could live like that, without sex, without intimate R with a woman, and with staying out of my business other then something that involves our son or home.
I dont know if I could either....
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
