Hi Hoju

Keeping yourself crazy busy is a really good thing to do, the distraction will help.

I know exactly what you mean though about the video games. stuff i used to enjoy doing like that or watching certain TV shows they just dont hold my attention or relax me like they used to.

Can you remind me what your 180s are and how you think you contributed to the problems in your marriage. its helpful to get a sense of how your doing on these


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress