In Jan 2014, I approached her noticing that things were different and not in a good way. She identified to me that “she wasn’t happy.” She told me she wanted to discuss things with her Dad (her rock and a good listener). I tried to be supportive not fully understanding what was going on and carved out time so they could go snowboarding together. Time went by. I found out this fall that she didn’t talk with her Father until June.
Are you SURE her father went??? This sounds like a wayward spouse lie. If you know for certain her dad was there, would her dad cover for her? Did she spend a lot of time NOT with her dad? Were you able to reach her consistently?? Did she happen to coincidentally run into someone she knew from high school, college or work???
The trips purpose was to talk to dad and she didn't....so what was the REAL purpose???
I just hate seeing you negotiate a divorce with a terrorist that is likely lying to you AND trying to rob the family's bank as well. If she's wayward your children your protection from her and the OM. They need more time (and custody) with you the sane parent committed to their happiness and you should be fighting for HER to pay you alimony and/or child support while she pursues her wayward lifestyle.
I keep checking back in for the time bomb post telling me I was right OR wrong but closing your eyes and ears from the truth while negotiating your own divorce is just so devastating when you finally discover she lied to you this whole time and OM moves into your home with your wife, children and your child support.
The internet is 90% complaining and entitlement and I hate it because I deserve better!
