WAH - gone almost 1 year, still so hard.

[stacey9]

Suckerpunch thanks so much again for the great advice. I am GAL as best as I can, I go out with friends almost every weekend, but I have to admit I am still so nervous about bumping into H and OW (I have seen them together a few times).

During the last year we were together I did not show him any affection or attention, I think I was trying to punish him for not being so nice to me. Obviously it all backfired, his needs were not being met and he got involved with the OW. I'm just wondering though - should I send him a card for Christmas? Maybe with a little message or reminder of happier times gone by? Or would that be the worse thing I could do? I'm just wondering if doing something different would surprise him. Any advice you have on this would be gratefully appreciated, as always.

RPP, thanks too for your advice. I have never heard of a forensic accountant, that's certainly something to consider.

And well done Suckerpunch on the front row seats! Enjoy!