Ski trip is still on.

XW told D22 that she introduced the kids to a "very special friend" over the weekend. No idea how much, how long, overnight, whatever. She has told D22 that she spends every available second with this guy, and punishes D22 emotionally when she refuses to engage the conversation about the boxer in a positive way.

Certainly explains why D22 was making the situation worse while the D was ongoing - she has known about the other man longer than I have.

Whatever. My younger kids will ignore it entirely until there is a pattern, then put it together. I have no idea what the SS15 thinks (he has had more exposure.) I know he damn sure appreciates the time he gets with me, and wants me to teach him how to drive.

My XW is a selfish narcissist. Unless boxer pulls back, she will run headlong into yet another marriage. I almost feel sorry for the home wrecking a$$hole.


Me: 43 XW: 43
T15 M14
D21, SS15, S11, D8
BD: 8/6
EA / possible PA discovered 9/29
D final 10/20