Thx guys . I could move out tommorrow with a new woman ,but i refuse to leave my sons . Ive been there for those boys everyday of their lives so far and im not giving in to her . She needs to be the one to go . I only have the boys around for another few years till they are really living their own life so im not pulling out . As far as reconciling with her , ive given up all hope . Shes still not showing remorse and acting like its her right to sleep with whomever she wants


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )