Sandi, thanks. Sounds like I did what I needed to do last night. She didn't bring up OM at all, and neither did I. I sensed that she needed space so I didn't press her for conversation. I didn't try too hard to be in the same room with her. I gave her my full attention when we did talk; made sure I met her eyes as much as I could. I did keep my attitude positive and upbeat, even when D15 dropped her iPhone and cracked the screen for the fourth damn time since she's had it :-)

We talked briefly about my family situation but she initiated.

Asking her how she's doing can trigger a spew, as I found out on Tuesday night.


Last edited by Rzrback; 12/18/14 04:47 PM.
Ex Rzrback
Me 43 Her 44
D11, D15
T21, M19
BD 9/9/2014
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