Not sure how to read this...she did have the pullback/spew this week as Starsky predicted. She's not spewing anymore, but she feels distant. Maybe it's just me. She's basically friendly with me, we talk. We talked briefly about family stuff and my conversation with my parents yesterday. She's overly concerned with what my parents say, as if that's going to change anything. I just told her what they said to me and that it was irrelevant to us. I thought that me going dark with my parents would relieve some stress for her, but it doesn't seem to have done that, at least not in any way I can see. Maybe she's waiting for me to backslide and contact them.

Last night wasn't unpleasant, but it was distant. I just gave her space and kept things steady and upbeat on my end. We worked out, did a few household things, and went to bed. Not sure what else to do. It's only been 7 days since she cut off OM. No evidence of any further contact.

Gave me a kiss and a long hug when she left for work this morning. I had to drop by her work and retrieve my wallet from her car. We chatted pleasantly for a bit, compared schedules, and then I went on my way. Yesterday she had lost her engagement ring and was freaked out about it until I found it. It's good to know she cares if she's wearing her rings (I know, mind reading).

Last edited by Rzrback; 12/18/14 03:33 PM.
Ex Rzrback
Me 43 Her 44
D11, D15
T21, M19
BD 9/9/2014
Piecing

Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood