Going DownHill 3- Served with Divorce Papers

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So where do I go from hear. She is so mad. Any little thing about child care, splitting assets etc turns bad. As she says I am being difficult. I can't see this getting any better. She will keep getting more angry with me. And I am at the end of my rope. I feel like I keep giving 1" and she try's to take 2".

I really feel like I can't be any where around her right now as I have so much anger myself. For how this will hurt the kids. That I feel this should never happened. How do I do what should be best for the kids and still deal with this.

Do I give her the family Christmas. Especailly 1 week after she sent me divorce papers, took the kids out of the house and away from me. If I don't she will say that I am being selfish and not doing what is best for the kids.