Going DownHill 3- Served with Divorce Papers

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So laying in be not getting any sleep trying to make sense of this all. But it really doesn't make much sense.

I have done tonnes of reflection and I think I have realized my faults
- avoided conflict (always thought it was easier to turn other cheek
- Avoided anything emotional. Kept my feelings inside and thus wise didn't like to talk about them
- Worked to much. Felt like I needed to provided for family instead of actually being there for family
- Did not tell her she was pretty or how much I appreciated her. I always felt it was assumed. Her LL was words of affermation
- Ignored/brushed off clues. STBXW would be sad and said we had to work on marriage. I would just take it as she was having a bad day. It seemed like she would always feel better after a couple days

There are many others that I can think of. But is this enough to call it quits and give up. Especially with children involved?

I know I wasn't the best husband. But I do hope that I was a good one.
- I provided for family. She never had to work and we never had any money problems
- When I wasn't working I tried to give undivided attention to family
- I did not cheat on her, beat her, belittle her or call her down ever.
- I was a good dad STBXW even said so.