picked my daughter up from daycare today (around 3:30 pm and had her until 7 pm. she is doing well. she was upstairs and said "oh no, my bed is gone!!" then she went to our old bedroom and said "so is yours daddy! we gotta find them!" I reminded her that the beds were at mommy's house now.

when I put her in the car to go to mom's house, i have her a kiss and told her bye and I love her. she pointed to the front seat and said "daddy, c'mon...sit down, let's go home?" I played it off as her being silly but it actually hurt that she wasn't staying home with me. I have to be strong for her.

the wife looked pretty tired and seemed a bit irritable.... I asked if she was ok and she said she had a long day. I asked if she meant a long day at work, she then told me about everything that was going wrong all day long and stressed how tired she was. meanwhile she needed me to secure the care seat TIGHT because she had to take it out to move a table with her car. I happily did it for her.

Her father and I play a scrabble game online (words with friends) and he asked how I was doing , I told him ok given the situation and I know I will be fine in the end. He said he was still so confused about the whole situation and stressed his concern for our daughter. I tried not to give too many details because it's HER father, but just reiterated that I do not agree with the entire situation and I do not like her co-worker / friend that has been "helping" her over the past several months.

In my eyes, That girl definitely was an outside influence that helped my wife convince herself that she should take ANY little mistake I make/made and blow it up and throw it in my face to justify her actions.

is what it is....as long as my daughter is ok smile she is all that matters

me-42
w-33
d-3
together-6
m-4yr
6/1/14-w check out
6/15/14-EA?
8/1/14-mc
9/1/14-IDLY-started DBing
9/15/14-w suggest separation
10/17/14 wife is done
12/13/2014 - wife move out
me file 1/1/15