Hey, guys. A not so great night. D22 informed me that she needed to come clean - mom is seeing somebody. And Mom has been looking for validation (but not getting it) from d22. And Mom introduced him to my kids last wknd. I'm sure D8 and S11 were impressed. And SS15 has known about this guy for weeks since he joined XW and SS15 on at least one trip back to his Dad's house.
D22 is sad and pissed. I am sick to my stomach. 7 weeks post-divorce and she's turned into some special kind of crazy.
Pray for me guys. Don't know what I'm gonna do next - or what else to say to D22. XW said she wants to marry this guy to D22.
I guess we'll wait and see. I'll just keep on fixing my financials and preparing for the worst. Won't tell XW I know anything until it comes out more organically.
D8 turns 10 in 16.5 months - which is when the courts will take her wishes into account when deciding where she should establish her primary residency. I guess I'll aim for that date if I have to get legal. XW has lost all my respect and I don't think she and boxing guy should be the primary people raising my son and daughter. There's lots of stuff about her I've never mentioned here - and being married three times (& now potentially 4) is only the tip of the iceberg. Hurt people hurt people. I can't and won't let her hurt my children even more.
Me: 43 XW: 43 T15 M14 D21, SS15, S11, D8 BD: 8/6 EA / possible PA discovered 9/29 D final 10/20
