WAW Dating - Oh noes!!..

[LoveMyW]

Thanks for checking in on me jp.. I'm doing alright considering.. My time passed already here has helped me deal with it a little better than I would have thought, but I'm still a bit cut..

Time for a bit of an update on the last few days for you all..

Since hearing the news, I have gone back to basically NC with W (even after this, I'm still willing to call her W, and really, I'm still willing to fight), and although it has tried me a few times, I've let her initiate contact at all times and replied/let the chat on MY terms..

I've done this to help myself detach further and soften the blow, with the 1% hope that W will see that she misses me and he isn't all he is cracked up to be.. It has also been good to stop me from saying something that may bite me in the backside later!!..

The funniest thing, I can see EXACTLY what game out of the pickup artist manual OM (technically) is playing, but it is no point saying anything to W, as that only makes me look bad and will no doubt inflame any situation..

Anyway, 2 days of NC, W contacts me regarding a financial matter (I waited a little while to return the msg).. I kept it to the point, didn't reply immediately, like a neighbour style and short.. Without getting in to details of the financial matter, I mentioned to her that I will get it sorted when I get back to my place as I was out and busy (I was at a kid family members birthday so no lies there!!).. She seemed a little miffed that I wasn't chatting as such, but just taking care of business..

After that, I went back to NC.. I have been speaking to the kids on facetime on their ipods so They haven't missed talking to me!!.. Fast forward to today and she messaged me again regarding another detail about the same matter.. She seemed a bit P'd off by this chat too with the "neighbour friendly" talking.. What do you all take from this??..


W: Hey LMW, Did you get the transfer done??..

Me: Hi W, Yes I did..

W: Ok thank you..

M: That's fine.. I'm a bit busy at the moment (was at work), but i'll talk to you more (about xmas gifts, last conversation before NC) when I pick up S6+9 tomorrow..

W: Right.. Whats up with you, or what is your problem??.. I won't worry about calling you later then about it then (never had a plan to beforehand)..

M: Nothing.. I'm just flat out at work.. I'll have a chat to you tomorrow about it..

W: Fine, talk then..

M: No worries.. Have a good rest of your day.. Tell the boys I love and miss them..

W: Ok, I will tell them.. XX


Now, the getting upset/angered is probably a control thing (and she feels like she is losing it), well from what I've seen here anyway.. Someone can explain further if they wish..

The XX at the end is the bit that gets me.. It's never happened since BD, so why now??.. She knew EXACTLY who she was messaging so that can't be to blame.. A slip up, or real meaning??.. I'm not buying in to it either way.. It's just plain weird!!..

Anyway, if anyone would like to chime in, feel free!!..