Well, my comment is - if it was such a once in a lifetime love, and the love of her life....why did it end?! I read somewhere that A's are deceitful and can cause scars across generations. So people frequently justify them (to themselves and others) as - this thing was bigger than the both of us...the love was so strong....I found my soulmate etc.
In respect of the escorts, and having intercourse with them. I can see that's really hard to overcome. I haven't fully read your sitch. How long ago was this. And what have you done by way of reparation and to try and rebuild trust?
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
