Here is part of an e-mail she wrote to her friend on Saturday afternoon (before we had our heart-to-heart talk). She shared this with me today.
"Finding out that he did indeed have intercourse with those escorts and how much money he drained really validates my strong conviction why there is no way I can be with him. No matter how much he has changed. I can't be with him because we are fundamentally two different people, with different outlook on life, different values in life, etc. Most importantly we don't have the trust anymore.
I can look in to anyone's eyes and have no regrets leaving him, falling in love and engaged in an affair with [OM] while still married. I won't apologize for falling in love with the love of my life. I wish circumstances were different for me and [OM] and who knows our path, but we both know this love is really once in a lifetime if you are lucky!
