Letter from lawyer outlining H's assets and I don't believe he's being truthful. My L has now asked for more proof of his finances etc and he is furious. I feel I need to get everything I am entitled to, this is my future after all. He is angry that this is just slowing everything up. What can I do? He seems to hate me.
Stacey, sorry you are hurting right now. Holidays are tough.
Let your L handle it, that's his job. Don't get sucked into H's drama. If he wants to speed things up, he can just be truthful in the first place. If needed, you can hire a forensic accountant to investigate and make sure you are finding all the assets. If you think it's a lot he's hiding, it would be worth it.
I know a guy who cheats on his W regularly. He has detailed for me how much property he owns that his W has no idea about. It happens. Protect yourself.
