I thought everything was okay...(Part 2)

[Vanilla]

MCS

I hadn't forgotten the judgement question either, so was planning to ask you if being on this site had changed anything at some stage.

By involving ourselves with those who are different to us, ages, sexes, sitches, backgrounds and knowing that they give us help, understanding, support, 2x4, we expose ourselves to love. This site is overflowing with love and connection, despite the pain there is growth and love. The real non judgmental stuff. There will never be judgement when there is a connection to love. I believe in the stuff, boodles and boodles of it, there is no shortage, it pours from every thread. Love isn't a cake with a limited number of slices, there is more than enough to go round and more coming.

One of the writers that I often offer to beginners at Gamanon is Mike George, he is about spiritual development and writes about Love Actually. If I were to offer you any book then it would be that one. The practice of active love is contained within and the letting go of judgement and attachment. This is not any kind of book on M or D but on spiritual growth and is beautifully written. Sadly there is as yet no Ted talk on his work.

I will leave you MCS to keep mulling on this.

Your fellow traveller

Vanilla