Divorced and moving out.....still hopeful

[NewB3]

I have not been available to her.
I have taken my time with my kids. Played at the parks, had people over for a holiday party, and devoted more time to me, my new home, and my kids. I have been treating her like a neighbor, and not a friend when I have to talk to her in person or on phone.
My C says not to treat her like a neighbor. Maybe she is lonely, missing me.....maybe not, but C feels I need to be friendly and let her come to me. Being friendly may make her feelings come back to what they were when we met. I am the same guy, life just got in our way.

Two weeks ago, Sunday, out of the blue, she calls and asks if I want to go to lunch with her and S3.5. I had my S11 and told her let me see if he was interested and I would text her back. 15 min. Later I agreed to go. S3.5 was not behaving, so she had to cancel. I let it go and never mentioned it.
Following weekend, she moved to her new home. I, again, have not reached out in any way. Sunday she called and asked to come get him at end of day. Said she wants to intro him to his place, instead of me dropping him off at new place. However, I am welcome, just felt he would handle it better.
S3.5 had gotten sick, my day to get him for the week. So, I left work and picked him up at her new home. I was polite, but let him show me things as he wanted. She was chatty, I was nice. We then got to her bedroom door. She said it was her room and asked if I wanted to see it, I said sure. Showed me the room and bath...chatty. I complimented something in the bathroom. She called last night to check on him and when getting off the phone, I went from parent to friend mode. Wishing her a good night and stay warm.
Today she called. S3.5 with me, still sick. She thanks me for taking off and taking care. He chats with her and then says I love you...hands me the phone and says, say I love you dad. I hesitated, but then said it. She paused and said to him, okay, feel better, love you too.
Still looking for sandi2 to give more female perspective.

I guess I am doing okay with her. Trying to apply Corey Wayne's stuff as it applies too. This will take some time, I have plenty of that. I need and want her in my life, romantically. We will see.