The chief pro is that she is in A fog and that as long as she is she isn't looking at the damage that is done everyday by her choices (and the massive long term damage associated with her moving)
Everything I've seen tells me she is convinced that she will be happy elsewhere. That she wants to find real love and that passion is with OM1. I know she us jealous of her PF even though her AP has been stringing her along for over a year.
Anyway bust the A and W might have to face the consequences if what she's done.
Big con is that she sees it as more of me trying to control her and destroy her happiness.
Yes when an A is going on they are all like that! This is what an A does. Its like saying a dog barks, a drunk drinks or a fiddler plays, its what they do. And until they come out of it that's how it will be, I am not sure busting it helps. I can move the A to the next stage (when it otherwise wouldn't have done) and it can cause failure of the A then that was likely anyway. Can move them on to another one.
Think Clinton
"I did not have sex with that woman" Monica Lewinski
after saying
"There is no truth in the accusations of that woman" Jenifer Flowers
And boy did he get busted!
Just because you can doesn't mean you should. I trust you have hard evidence too.
Vanilla
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
