Jim0987 #7 - rebuilding but can't tell what it is

[edz]

So I reread the infidelity section and it doesn't seem to say anything about busting an affair or not. So I'm confused on the pros/cons of this. Consensus seems leave it alone but I'm curious why? And if their is experience of successfully busting it?

Me again

I cant answer the last half of that but I think you need to weigh up what good would come out of it versus the fallout. As I said only you know your sitch and w well enough to make the estimate. I think from what I've read the difference between it ending without your interference and your intervening is the control aspect. I dont know if the "fighting for the marriage" aspect is bigger than the appearance of making decisions in her life aspect, I really don't know mate.

I can guess what Vanilla is going to say when she comes by though

Anyway are you not late for all these dancing martial art cocktail drinking escapades you're off out on?



Edz