Vanilla,
Yeah you are right I think I'm pretty comfortable with the situation right now because it's following the script that other people say on here. I think right now I just need to make sure that we are at the point that her and I Do not do anything too rash decisions anymore. think that she understands that if we rush this and do it without communicating that we are both going to be very upset. I guess that's all I can hope for right now and just let it go.

I also feel a lot better about myself right now and where I am in the situation. In saying that I still need to go back and look and figure out what you asked me on how I can let go of judgment of other folks. I didn't forget about that, still been thinking a lot about it.

M:36 W:37
T: 15 M:11
S6 D5
BD: 8/10/14
IDLY: 8/12/14
S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids)
D Mentioned: 10/15/14
Confronted about OM: 10/15/14
EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13
She filed: 8/15 (not final)