Yes Ive been thinking seriously about telling her to leave . I agree the day to day interactions are uncomfortable . Shes threatened to leave multiple times but hasnt . She says shes stuck because i wont hide the truth and she doesnt want anyone to know the dirty little secret . I cannot hide the truth if she leaves . She said I can but I wont . This is the conundrum . I could tell everyone we just grew apart and we need space from each other and that it is mutual . But its not the truth . So she feels trapped because of me and hence hates me for it . But in reality she is trapped by her own doing > from whats shes created and her fear of owning up to whats shes done .
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
