Hahaha! Your juggling of baby tigers had me laughing out loud. But she notices, I promise you she does. It's all part of her game to pretend she doesn't because her goal is to hurt you, because she's been hurt by you. That's how it reads from here. Keep improving, doing great stuff: she thinks about it.

Here's a challenge: be optimistic jim0987 for one day. You have plenty of time anyway, so you can spare a day for this. So think positive stuff, see hope in your sitch, report on it here. The following day, you can revert to your old self. But in the meantime, see where it takes you.

Speaking of hope in your sitch, you'd really prefer my situation with a handsome, attentive OM who's replaced me in family activities and drawings and is about to move in, to your W's unstable situation?


M39 D6 D3 (at S)
S 2014-09
D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.