Card29 VII

[Card29]

I hope we can all learn together. I know I've learned just as much in other threads as I have my own.

Ad far as the timing and channel for this conversation...I had been waiting months for the opportunity. It never really came, so after she told me she wanted a D, we finally split our finances, and I was finally officially moving out of the house, I figured there never was going to be a perfect time, so I came out with it. Her reception has shocked me. I knew porn used to really bother her, but I thought this was going to be a 10 minute conversation. I just thought she deserved to know, but I was also hoping it would give her hope in change. I'm not pursuing or expecting that change of heart, though. It has been very hard to hear how much it still hurts her, but I'd take this reaction over indifference.