However, you did marry her knowing how she felt. She has a right to that feeling and many women do feel like that even about the casual viewing. I don't share that view, although I certainly understand it. You are using other women for your gratification, instead of turning to her. That can be painful. And how can we compete with a never-ending parade of enhanced bodies and crazy combinations of activities? I can see why she might feel like that.
But beware, this could sound as if you are blaming her for not being open-minded enough, and making it about HER shortcomings--not that I think you are--but the fact that she didn't like it even back then, it's irrelevant, know what I'm saying?
So--knowing you were marrying a woman who was very upset about your porn usage---what was your way around that in your mind? (Because there had to be a workaround, especially since it got out of hand by your own admission.)
