You say that your sister's boyfriend was doing things with the phone lines and that you had your cell phone turned off. And that you never heard anything from Pam.
Then you say that the phone rang once, from Pam.
And now you are asking if we think she's out to hurt you or just stressed?
Have you spoken to Pam or are you making ASSumptions??
So, let me guess...you know she's facing or may have faced the decision to have to put a loved pet to sleep. You have not made yourself available to her throught this tough time. And now you are asking if the fact that she called and let the phone ring once is her seeking revenge?
Sorry I can't be more helpful...I'm just not sure what you are asking our opinion on.
