Card, not sure why you asked if she was crying a lot.
Leave her to sort this out. She is working through it. You need to let her.
You are going to see more anger, I would bet. Dont try to fix it. Listen, validate and then listen some more.
I guess I was just trying to show her that I know she's hurting. Clumsy attempt, I admit
One thing I've noticed...this feels a lot like when I confessed my problems to her early in our relationship. She was extremely hurt for at least 2-3 days both of those times. And of course back then, she was in love with me, so we began to heal together, and it led to some really good stretches (porn-free, intimate, etc.). My bad strategies at quitting porn never worked, though, so it sent me back down the same spiral.
Last edited by Card29; 12/16/1410:31 PM.
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23
