Been a day or so, nothing new to report on the home front. W is still upbeat, positive, and talking like we have a future. Just working on filling that love tank.

Had a very enlightening conversation with an aunt (technically ex-aunt) who just finalized her D from my sex-addicted uncle. I learned a lot about the unhealthy dynamic that exists in my family; the one that my W was considering leaving to get away from. I know more about what I need to do to protect her from all that. My issues setting boundaries was my residual conditioning to keep the peace and keep up appearances at all costs. It was nice to hear from a third party about my control-addict father.

Just heard from a recruiter at the company I'm applying to. Hopefully I'll hear about an interview sometime after Christmas. If I get the job I'm looking at a $10K to $20K raise.

Ex Rzrback
Me 43 Her 44
D11, D15
T21, M19
BD 9/9/2014
Piecing

Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood