Quote: Was I too harsh with BnB? I wasn't trying to be, but I suspect it came across that way.
No, you put a very harsh truth into a thoughtful, insightful and caring post. It is not your fault that her H feels as he feels. That is the hard part for her. I liked your post: you phrased those concepts much better than I could.
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
