Time and effort if you ask me. I took time and made the effort for the boundaries. To let the anger go. To let the creepiness go.
You need to accept that what is - is. It's not what you wanted, nor necessarily expected. But now that it's what is, how you deal with it is important to your, and your kids futures.
AJ
P.S. Consider posting on newcomers - you'll get more responses and traffic there.
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
