I think GGrass is right. But one way to test the middle ground would be to be limited in your availability and make him fit into your schedule.
You could say
'My plans have changed a bit, but if you still want to meet before you go then im going xxxx at xxxxxx on xxxxx, but am free afterwards if you want to get an ice cream'
I'm not great at this stuff but you get the idea. The concern is if it seems pursuing. If he's mirroring then he will respond with either a yes or a no but....
If he doesn't respond or its a flat no then he's not mirroring
Just a thought so hopefully others will weigh in, definitely listen to the vets on this stuff
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
