You two need a written separation agreement so youre both crystal clear on how S's time is divided and whether/how changes will be handled.
If you have a clear agreement you can filter out the unnecessary requests from her to talk about every single little thing.
Couldn't agree more. H and I have a non-legal S agreement that spells out the parenting schedule. As long as we both stick to the schedule, no contact is needed. Any schedule changes are made between us and don't go through D12, keeps her out of the middle.
