afraid I have waited too long #4

[nit84]

I plan on staying out of it Wonka. I provided this info to give the board some more info about the dynamic of my M.

My MIL is a very selfish person in a lot of respects and it did put unneeded stress our M. My W and I did a good job of screwing things by ourselves without influence.

Now that we are S my MIL is depending on my W for a lot more and I am sure enjoys the extra time my W has to give her.

My W is more like the Mother in that relationship and MIL is more like the daughter.

I have been told throughout my M and before that our dating. That my MIL is extremely jealous of the life my W and I led because hers was not what she wanted.

We included her in a lot of our fun times. Vacations, concerts, Nascar races, Events on my Family's side etc.

I had no problem with at all for a long time. Then I realized that my W and I hadn't been alone on a vacation since our Honeymoon. My W brought this to my attention about 4 months before our S and I worked on surprising her with a vacation but I had to tell her because we both needed to get passports and when I did it was met with indifference and 2 months later we were S.


Thanks for keeping me on track!!