Vossy, sorry to hear that you had a rough few days. Even without the past life events, I feel similarly about many of the things you say. H didn't ask if I was ok. He didn't send anything to say he was ok. Even my sisters were asking me about him, and one of them lives in the UK. It's like there is no "care factor" which hurts a lot. I can't imagine ever finding myself in a place where I don't care about someone who shaped my life so much.

But that says a whole lot more about out H/BF than it does us. Maybe it's the fog or maybe it's a serious personality flaw. Either way it ain't good and it bites to be on this side of it.


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014