Christmas is next week. What are the odds that they can get everything ready to go to court as well as get a time in court set so you can finalize this? I don't see it happening. My guess is the best it can happen is during the first couple weeks of January. I was asked the question last week and given the idea it will be happening for me this week. Again, no movement. I suspect that a date of January 8 will be used since we already had an appearance set for that date. So, I would not get worked up over what will probably not happen.
I agree with your assessment that you wife needs to get the D out of the way to make room for her to hopefully start to get well. My wife is the same situation. Until their fixation is cleared out of the way and they learn the truth they will not make any progress.
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