Not sure what to do at this point

[Vanilla]

Tina

Good for you. Maintain those boundaries, be firm.

Ignore the rail, H knows the truth, it's just a big rationalisation that you are rejecting him because there is someone else. That's his behaviour not yours. Smile to yourself, it's irrational and not you.

Now OW texting you makes some sense to me, H only seems to want what he can't have. OW is no longer such an attractive proposition to H and she may see it. Possibly roll out next OW?

I got this, apparently my affair is a 72 year old much married female called Jo, who H felt w as a hansome young buck with whom I had a great passion. He still does not know Jo is female and a fellow Rotarian with whom I was arranging parking permits for a concert!

Keep strong
Vanilla