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OK...I strongly disagree with not responding when you feel you are being disrespected.
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This would be doing something different. Not responding at all just looks like conflict avoidance on your part. That makes Pam feel disrespected and triggers her. If you follow my suggestion, you are stating the truth in a way that is respectful to both of you.




Tal,

Been thinking about what you wrote... probably some advice there that I really need to take. I think I need to try what you've suggested.


CoolHandLuke