Originally Posted By: nit84
Since I don't know her new(since June)cell number do I slide in "maybe text me tomorrow if you are free and we can meet" or just keep it email for now?


No. You need to follow W's lead on this one.


Originally Posted By: nit84
A bad thing about this night is the Woman half of this couple that the fundraiser is for told me last year how she told my MIL to butt out of my W and I marriage and she told my W on several occasions throughout the years that she was misunderstanding what I saying to her and that she was getting upset over nothing.

This woman is good friends with my MIL but I believe her when she tells me that in the past she has told my MIL these things and actually she is not the only one but MIL is a different sort of person.


Stay out of this. It's between those two women. Just carry on at the fundraiser.