Funny you mention new clothes... I already picked out my outfit, a little hair jel, a dab of W favorite cologne a slight 5 o'clock shadow and I am set(any suggestions on the dark circles under eyes?). I have always had them so it wont be a shock just wondering is all.
I won't ask how she is doing as I typed that I think I already knew that answer.
Her bringing the OM is not even a remote possibility. He is not a member of the club not saying he couldn't sit in the lot but it is highly unlikely.
I most definitely will mingle but I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable. I am a social butterfly at this club and know pretty much every member so I will be ok just looking out for their feelings is all.
I have not gone down to this club in this long because I have been doing other GAL and also not to put some friends in an awkward position of worrying about talking to me or my W for that matter.
If my W wants to talk about anything other than the fundraiser. I will politely say that we should do it some other time over coffee maybe not here, not now because of the importance of this night.
Since I don't know her new(since June)cell number do I slide in "maybe text me tomorrow if you are free and we can meet" or just keep it email for now?
A bad thing about this night is the Woman half of this couple that the fundraiser is for told me last year how she told my MIL to butt out of my W and I marriage and she told my W on several occasions throughout the years that she was misunderstanding what I saying to her and that she was getting upset over nothing.
This woman is good friends with my MIL but I believe her when she tells me that in the past she has told my MIL these things and actually she is not the only one but MIL is a different sort of person. I know my MIL and I love her but I also am wary of her at the same time.
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
