In a couple days there is a fund raiser for 2 people, a H and W, who both are stricken with Cancer at the moment.
They are good friends of my W and I. Their Daughter and Grand Daughters are also very good friends.
It is being held at a club we are members of. My MIL will be bartending.
This night is all about the couple. I will certainly keep it that way.
My questions are. Do I acknowledge my W or allow her to come to me. Do I go to my MIL part of the bar or do I go to another bartender for my Water?
This will be the first time I see my W(if she comes) in 2 1/2 months and the first time in 15 months for my MIL.
If you guys advise me to say hi to my W, is that all or do I ask how she is doing? Do I ask my MIL how she is doing or how my FIL is doing? He is not in the best of health and I have not seen him since this S began.
This will be the first time I will be at this club in 11 months so I am also curious about the way I will be received by some of the "bar" friends. When this all started most if not all of these mutual "bar" friends were quietly wishing me luck and saying it shouldn't be this way. I realize they could be saying the same thing to my W. I trust people a lot and feel mostly they want to see us together. I know for a fact that no one knows about my W OM unless they have seen it with own eyes.
My W has done a good job of not saying too much to these people from what I am told. Which is a good thing.
This is one of those times that I feel I need to make the most of any interaction with her family. Others in W family could be there also. Uncles, Aunts brothers etc.
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
