Yes. Some of my first thoughts probably wouldn't have come across as constructive.
Quote: Seriously though, I'm glad you appreciate the post. I hope that means it was helpful.
Yup. It said some thinks I've been trying to find a way to say.
Quote: I'm not sure what the crying was directed at... I hope it was a good cry, they can be very healing. If you feel up to it, maybe you can explain it a bit more?
Both were very good cries.
I feel like some of the things you wrote were things P needs to hear. When they come from me, she ignores them or argues with them. I know she values your thoughts and opinions very highly, so maybe she'll let them sink in a little. Plus, some of my more direct posts sometimes start BB fights. I think as a WAS, I'm sort of a "bad guy" in most eyes on the BB.
I've tried asking P if her actions are taking her closer to her goals or not. I've tried asking her how she'd react to things if she were in my shoes, etc. There are times when I just want to shake P and ask her if she's thinking at all about her actions.
