Thats what I am trying to do, I am just staying quiet, being daddy and doing my normal daily stuff around the house, spending a lot of time with the kids (which is the norm actually, just a little more) Tonight we took the kids to get a bite to eat before attending a school function. I am normally a jeans and t shirt guy. Before she got home from work, I put on a nice shirt and khakis, polished a bit. She noticed, couldn't quite believe it, she didn't exactly say I looked nice or compliment me but She noticed. Wonder what else I can do while I give her space just to catch her inquisitiveness? Above all else I just want her to see that I am a different person than I have been and I am embracing it. I just need the time to prove it