Don't do anything on the heat of the moment, obviously you are not in any condition to make decisions right now.
Take your time honey, rest a little bit. Give yourself a chance to be angry, sad.
The D is not easy to digest, but it is not the end of the story. As I understand, you just signed the D. COOL DOWN...a little bit and when you feel better, more reasonable; then think that until the D is definitive there is some things to do.
In my state even if the D is very agreeable it will take no less then 3 months to have it final and signed. And that is if one part doesn't contest anything.
So if it is the case in your state, you got some time to smooth things up.
While waiting for the D procedures, what could you think you would be willing to do?
*** One thing that helps me to put more in perspective about my H is to remember everything I didn't like about him. Like some times he said something mean to me and it hurts, or he ate a salad full of onions, or he just sat there, lazy all day and I was working my A** off.
Somehow my prince becomes an ugly frog.
So sweetie, give yourself a few days off, not H business at this point. When the hardest pain settles down, then start thinking again. Maybe some vet can came to the rescue and give some wise ideas...
We care about you... when are you going to start caring for yourself?
