I said i would be happy to sit down with all the bank statements for both of us and we could work out a solution based on actual figures
Great advice! I've been thinking about saying something like this but haven't. Don't know why. Maybe it's the conflict avoider in me? I think I'm afraid he will see that I have more than I need and will adjust my portion of his paycheck. BUT, if he has something to hide, he could back down and that will take care of the issue. I need to get over my fears and just take action.
M:35 H:36 Married: 14yrs Kids: D7, S4, D1.5 BD: 4/14 Mentioned Divorce: 5/14 Moved out 6/14 OW confirmed: 9/14 Wants to move forward with D 11/14
