Originally Posted By: Bert35
"I am just not in love with you anymore" I am done crying, I just wanna grab the bull by the horns and take control.

So what made her fall in love before you got married?

Who were YOU then?

Yes I would assume she does not trust that you wont start drinking, and I would assume all this pressure is a huge test on YOU.

You need to let her stay shut down for now, IMHO.
Give her the space she needs and continue to focus on YOU.

Me-70, D37,S36