I am trying to learn about myself more in this process and that has to come with some humility and owning up to my own faults. I appreciate your, and everyone else's input / insight. Hopefully I will come through all of this wise enough to be helpful for someone else in the future.
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."