Life 2.0 Part 2

[Mozza]

I really like you sitch, Razrback. Keep on posting.

To anyone who's watching my thread; patience and perseverance are crucial! Just because a WAS doesn't acknowledge your improvements, they do notice. My W said to me this weekend that one thing that has helped her regain trust in me was my patience and willingness to stand and fight for her even when she knew she was doing wrong (her words).

High five! My WAS doesn't even want to talk to me, so he's not seeing diddly. LOL. Ahhhh, affair lust. How stupid it is.

Aah, the old question of "Do they see our changes?" Of course, we do them for ourselves anyway (I'm surprised at how well I shaped up in only a couple of months), but I also believe that they might see them.

I'm lucky that my kids report on some of the stuff I do to my W ("Daddy's working out?? What else?"), but I also ran into her in the street by coincidence once and I was happy to be well-dressed in new clothes. It might be a friend who will report, a chance encounter, seeing us from a distance, a way of talking, our name somewhere on a website, a Tweet, an Instagram picture, a picture in the Facebook post of a friend, etc.

Even if we don't have direct contacts, we should not give up hope that they will see our changes. Also, some changes are for the long run (like the gym) and will be ready for the day we may re-initiate contacts. So let's be optimistic about our visibility and believe that it will happen in due time.

Thanks for the testimonial, Rzrback.