Had a good session with Chuck today; He seems to think I'm on the right track. I needed that lift today! Things are still outwardly good but he's helping me make sure I don't go overboard but at the same time to take more initiative in meeting her emotional needs.

To anyone who's watching my thread; patience and perseverance are crucial! Just because a WAS doesn't acknowledge your improvements, they do notice.

My W said to me this weekend that one thing that has helped her regain trust in me was my patience and willingness to stand and fight for her even when she knew she was doing wrong (her words).

Last edited by Rzrback; 12/15/14 07:39 PM.

Ex Rzrback
Me 43 Her 44
D11, D15
T21, M19
BD 9/9/2014
Piecing

Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood