My big concern is my kids, they still don't know this is going on.
That is tough. I don't think either decision is right or wrong. But it may spook the kids prior to Christmas. My kids are much younger, and don't understand that piece.
One thing my wife did was take hers off and leave it off for extended periods. She'd take it off washing the dishes and then wouldn't put it back on for 4-5 hours. Or take it off while sleeping and put it back on at noon. Perhaps something like that would be mysterious enough to make him start thinking.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
